I belong to many groups of people as we all do. I consider the transgender community (or at least some of it...lol ) to be the most open and caring community I have encountered . Remember, as you go forward with your journey, that it's OK to hold out a hand to a more experienced T-Girl and ask for her help. Many T-Girls love to help less experienced girls. But while you are holding out that hand, remember the girl less experienced than you reaching out her hand for YOUR help. Sometimes, we are all we got.